Anonymous asked: You've said you're an atheist and it seems that you don't respect people who believe in God very much. I just want to let you know that not all of us are bad people. I don't want you to think most Christians are like the people from Westboro Baptist Church because we really aren't.

I’m not really sure what you expected me to say to this.
I don’t base the amount of respect I give to people on their religion. I base it on whether or not they are bigots, if they are kind and generous on every day of the week and not just Sunday, if they donate their time to people in need because they want to and not because they think they’ll get some kind of eternal reward. A person’s belief in God has nothing to do with whether or not they are a good person.
Someone simply being a Christian doesn’t earn or deserve my respect. Especially when they are a hateful person.
I’ve gotten messages like this before, about how not ALL Christians are like violent pro-lifers or the Westboro Baptist Church, and I find it interesting that people feel the need to tell me that rather than condemn the hateful actions of their fellow Christians. I know that not all Christians are hateful bigots, I was raised as a Catholic, I graduated from a Jesuit University, and I’ve been looking at private, religious institutions for medical school. Do you honestly think that I have never met someone who was a “good” Christian in all my years when I am fucking surrounded by them in every facet of my life?
I don’t think that believing in God makes someone a Christian. Being a Christian involves following the Bible and Jesus’s teachings but, in my opinion, you don’t get to pick and choose what to follow. Nowhere in the Bible does it say that only part of it should be taken seriously. And if you’re a Christian, I don’t see how you can be a good person and follow the Bible completely because the Bible has some seriously fucked up shit in it. I’m not saying it’s impossible to identify as a Christian and be a good person, but you probably can’t do that and accept every single thing in the Bible, too. Odds are you’re ignoring a significant portion of the Bible in which women are raped and it’s okay as long as they’re married to their rapist, people are stoned to death, and that Jesus said some pretty horrible things, too. And if you’re ignoring a large portion of the Bible, can you really be a Christian by Jesus’s standards? If you acknowledge that the Bible is super fucked up in many ways then why even bother following or believing in it? Why would you want to get your morals from a book that was relevant thousands of years ago and, frankly, isn’t anymore?
As for the Westboro Baptsist Church, I disagree with everything they stand for and I find them to be extremely vile human beings who stop just short of child abuse when it comes to forcing their children to stand outside and hold signs for hours that they do not understand the words’ full weight of. I also think they are some of the most authentic Christians in the world. I don’t doubt they’ve read the Bible (unlike the majority of Christians). I’m sure they have. I’m sure they follow it more closely than other Christians, too.
The phrase I hear the most from Christians when people use religion to oppress others is “well they aren’t REAL Christians” but that is a cop-out and an excuse. The people who are holding signs on the side of the road listing all of the things God hates ARE real Christians. They don’t exist in fairy tale land. Fred Phelps and his horrible family are based just over three hours away from me. Saying they aren’t REAL Christians means that so called “real” Christians don’t have to deal with the people who give the entire religion a bad name. If you get to say you’re a Christian and can’t even list the ten commandments or name all of Jesus’s Apostles, then you don’t get to say who is and isn’t a “real” Christian. It doesn’t work like that.
Instead of being concerned about how not ALL Christians are terrible people who are homophobic, anti-choice bigots and wanting to let me know that, why don’t you leave me alone and start changing the minds of those Christians who are terrible people. Telling an atheist about all the good Christians isn’t going to do shit to change the minds of the “bad” ones. The fact is, you don’t need to tell me this because I live a more Christian life than most self-professed Christians. I volunteer my time feeding the homeless at a local church and I volunteer to help the sick, both things Jesus would probably approve of.
Stop telling me that not all Christians are terrible people. I’m not the problem. Those terrible people claiming to be Christians are. You don’t want to be grouped in with them? Then fucking talk to them about it, not me.
Love,
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